Through the Fog

Tag: grief and growth

  • The Things That Almost Broke Me

    There are things

    I don’t talk about anymore.

    Not because they stopped hurting.

    Because I’ve carried them

    for so long

    they’ve become part of me.

    Old heartbreaks.

    Old mistakes.

    The kind of memories

    that show up uninvited

    and sit quietly

    in the corner of your mind.

    I used to fight them.

    Argue with the past.

    Replay every choice

    like I could somehow

    change the ending.

    But grief

    doesn’t negotiate.

    And regret

    has never listened to reason.

    So eventually

    I stopped asking why.

    Stopped demanding answers

    from things

    that were already over.

    And something strange happened.

    The pain didn’t disappear.

    It just lost its voice.

    It stopped being

    the loudest thing

    in the room.

    Now it feels more like

    an old scar.

    Something I notice

    when the weather changes.

    Something that reminds me

    where I’ve been

    without deciding

    where I’m going.

    Maybe that’s healing.

    Not forgetting.

    Not moving on.

    Just reaching a point

    where the things

    that almost broke you

    no longer get to decide

    who you are.

    Because I am more

    than my worst days.

    More than my failures.

    More than every chapter

    I thought would be

    the end of the story.

    And maybe that’s what survival is—

    looking at everything

    that tried to destroy you

    and realizing

    it didn’t.

  • The Places I Hide

    There are places I hide

    that no one knows about—

    not rooms,

    not addresses,

    not somewhere you could find

    with a map.

    I mean the places

    inside myself.

    The quiet corners

    where I keep old heartbreaks,

    old mistakes,

    old versions of me

    that never learned

    how to let go.

    I visit them more often

    than I should.

    When the night gets long.

    When the house gets quiet.

    When a memory

    catches me off guard

    and suddenly

    I’m years behind myself again.

    That’s the thing about healing—

    people think it’s a straight road.

    It isn’t.

    It’s circling back

    to wounds you thought were closed

    and finding out

    they still know your name.

    It’s carrying ghosts

    without inviting them

    to stay.

    And some days

    I get tired.

    Tired of being strong.

    Tired of rebuilding.

    Tired of learning

    the same lessons

    in different disguises.

    But even then—

    even in the places I hide—

    there’s a part of me

    that keeps the light on.

    A stubborn little thing

    that refuses

    to abandon itself.

    And maybe that’s enough.

    Maybe healing

    isn’t about never hiding.

    Maybe it’s about

    finding your way back out

    every single time.