Through the Fog

Category: heartbreak

  • I Still Think About You

    I still think about you.

    More than I should.

    Less than I used to.

    I guess that’s progress.

    You show up

    in stupid places—

    songs I didn’t choose,

    roads I’ve driven

    a hundred times,

    the middle of conversations

    that have absolutely

    nothing to do with you.

    And suddenly

    there you are.

    Not really.

    Just the version of you

    my memory refuses

    to throw away.

    Sometimes I wonder

    if you think about me too.

    If my name ever crosses

    your mind unexpectedly.

    If you ever reach

    for your phone

    before remembering

    we don’t do that anymore.

    I hate wondering.

    Because wondering

    is just hope

    wearing clothes

    it thinks I won’t recognize.

    And I recognize it.

    Every fucking time.

    The truth is,

    I don’t even know

    what I want from you anymore.

    I don’t know

    if I’d come back.

    I don’t know

    if I’d answer.

    I don’t know

    if hearing your voice

    would heal something

    or tear open everything

    I’ve worked so hard

    to close.

    I only know

    that I still think about you.

    And maybe that’s allowed.

    Maybe moving on

    doesn’t mean forgetting.

    Maybe someone can matter

    without belonging

    in your life anymore.

    Maybe I can miss you

    without reaching for you.

    Love what happened

    without asking

    for it to happen again.

    Remember you

    without turning the memory

    into an invitation.

    So yes—

    I still think about you.

    Sometimes softly.

    Sometimes angrily.

    Sometimes with an ache

    I can’t quite explain.

    But I don’t mistake

    thinking about you

    for needing you anymore.

    And maybe that’s

    how I know

    I’m finally letting go—

    you still cross my mind,

    but you don’t get

    to take me with you.

  • I Don’t Blame You

    I don’t blame you—

    that’s the part

    that surprises even me.

    After everything,

    after the quiet ways

    things unraveled

    without ever fully breaking,

    I expected anger

    to be louder.

    Cleaner.

    Something I could hold

    and point to

    and say

    that’s what I feel.

    But it isn’t.

    It’s softer than that.

    More complicated.

    The kind of understanding

    that doesn’t bring relief—

    just a different kind of ache.

    Because I see it now.

    The distance

    you didn’t know how to name.

    The hesitation

    you tried to hide.

    The way you stayed

    just long enough

    to convince both of us

    it might still work.

    You didn’t mean

    to hurt me.

    You just didn’t know

    how to love me

    the way I needed.

    And I didn’t know

    how to ask for less

    without losing myself.

    So we stood there—

    meeting halfway

    in a place

    that was never enough

    for either of us.

    And somehow

    that was worse

    than anything loud.

    No betrayal.

    No explosion.

    Just two people

    trying their best

    and still getting it wrong.

    So no—

    I don’t blame you.

    But I won’t pretend

    it didn’t cost me something.

    Because understanding

    doesn’t erase the damage.

    It just makes it harder

    to hate you for it.